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Who is the best therapist?
My dog Zen, of course,
and I know this is because he helps me reconnect with my inner intelligence (the true therapist in the room) which will always guide me towards healing, adaption and flourishment if I listen to it.
Whatever the therapeutic approach taken (be it somatic experiencing, IFS, person centred, CBT, trauma recovery, breathwork, PAT) the success of that therapy will be determined by the extent to which it enabled you to listen to and trust more in the inner healing intelligence that's built into the human operating system.
So what is this inner intelligence?…
One Moor Way to Tune into Resilience & Wellbeing
A personal account of walking the Dartmoor section of the Two Moor Way, and what being immersed in nature revealed to me about my resilience and wellbeing at this transitional moment in my life. It illustrated to me, as it might well do to you, the ongoing role nature (internal and external) plays in creating our experience, and expanding our awareness of life.
The Magic of Insights
How often do you pay attention to your insights?
An insight is a new thought that comes to us and shifts our understanding of who we are and how life is. Through that change in understanding we get to experience life in a different way and it shifts our behaviour.
We are designed to have these insights. We are designed for new and fresh thought about how life is but often we haven’t been taught this so we are too focussed on what we already know, what other people tell us or what we read in books so we don’t readily listen out for those insights.
State of Mind Snow Globe
Awareness of our state of mind, helps us to assess the extent to which we are able to see things clearly.
We can’t think our way out of a busy mind (that just makes it busier) but if we sense we are in a snow storm we can know not to take our thinking so seriously.
The snow (thinking) will naturally settle when we are less interested in it. In a quieter mind, we experience clarity and we’re more likely to see / hear new and fresh thought that’s relevant to the present moment.
A Tool Kit for a Better Life Podcast Interview
Kirstien joined Christine Petersen on her podcast "A Toolkit for a Better Life" to talk about "Living from the inside out" - a really interesting discussion on what this means, what are the benefits to us, and how to apply this to our normal lives.
Rooted in Presence: The synergy of breath and thought
There is a simplicity to being a field of possibility that can easily get overlooked.
Presence in the moment offers clarity.
When present our senses expand, we hear, see, smell, taste, feel more.
When present we think less. We think fresh.
When present we breathe slower, deeper, calmer.
Our mind is the magical solution
I just found the perfect sign for my door.
Most of the people I work with are surprised to discover that the solution resides in the magic of their mind.
What’s Behind the Scene?
We exist within the convincing illusion (upheld by a predominant but outdated social understanding) that our experience comes from the outside-in and our moods and feelings are caused by something or someone. Within this illusion it makes sense that we look to external things, or other people, changing to change our mood and experience.